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Dec 09 2022

My techniques : How I make a customer come

Hey guys I want to share something special with you!

 

How I would masturbate your cock, my techniques to help you make your masturbation better.

 

Now I know you are a  guy you know how to masturbate and its probably quite pleasurable already but I hope that I can inspire you to try new things and maybe take your experience to the next level.

 

So if you like to masturbate and if you have done it often then please write me on what’s app, to let me know that you do enjoy masturbating and make sure you order my to our appointment!

 

So let’s start …. Set an intention ! So rather than just releasing tension or like taking care of an itch set an intention for something bigger , maybe you want to use your masturbation as a way to train your body to last longer.

Maybe you want to tap into your raw primal masculine power.

Maybe you want to energize your body maybe you want to feel absolute unconditional love for yourself.

 

Like whatever that is set an intention before you start your masturbation, this will elevate your practice and take it to that very next level.  Plus the intention doesn’t have to be something that is always the same that is static.

You can change depending on where you are in your life what your needs are and adjust it accordingly.

 

Darling start adding your balls to your masturbation. Most guys  avoid or not include their testicles when they masturbate and I know that for a lot of you you are thinking …. I don’t want to go anywhere near my balls they are too sensitive its not pleasurable. Well you should massage your balls just to bring in some good circulation your balls produce testosterone if you have pain… it means that the circulation the energy is trapped.

Just like you know when you’re sore somewhere after a workout or something it tells you that ,hey you just need to like breathe better , move a little , let the energy move through that you can feel better !

 

So its the same with your balls and you might be surprised that they can fell really good when you include the into your self- pleasure session . So make sure to add your balls next time you masturbate and if you feel adventurous add your perineum to the experience or even going further your prostate. ( But that’s something special . I just giving you a little teaser to make you want it more )

All right…

 

Darling connect with your body more rather than being stuck in a fantasy and or watching porn. You want to stay present with what is happening in your body.

 

When you are fantasizing and you’re not really noticing what’s going on in your body. When you’re watching porn you somehow disconnect from yourself and you like put all of your energy all of your power towards the imagery that you’re seeing or creating in your head and when that happens you have no idea what’s happening in your body. Therefore you have no control over your body.  Your body controls you.  If you want to take your motivation to the next Level learn to connect with your body more and be more present. It might feel a little bit awkward at first because you’re so used to having an external stimulation but it´s important to know how to create your own arousal from within, because if you always depend from an external source. If that source is not there then you want be able to get stimulated and aroused so its important to know how to generate this self- arousal and this desire by yourself and for yourself .

 

 

 

Darling add some lube or oil to your experience! Most guys have one way of doing it, they do it dry and quickly.

Adding the oil will allow you to feel more sensations and make the experience feel different. You might discover new things you might also touch yourself differently because of that.

So try adding some lube, or some oil for a slippery experience.

 

My next idea is to start to use your breath when you are masturbating. Do you want to breathe deeply I’ve got a little secret for you the more you breath the more you feel.

So want to breathe in through your nose….and you to breath out through your mouth… Try letting some sounds out !!

Most people are so afraid of being heard, so they hold everything in. Allowing yourself and your voice to just come out can feel really good. Just notice you can’t even feel the vibration of your sound that comes out.

But play with your breath , notice if you breath faster how you get higher on your arousal scale, if you breathe slower it will slow you down in your arousal, so really its kind if like the accelerator and the brakes. The more you use your breath the more you’ll be able to play with that, and how you want to serve those waves of  pleasure of getting close to your edge and coming back down, so its not about chasing this orgasm, or this finish, its about building up something and moving this energy into your body, through and with your breath.

I know it sounds like a weird concept, but give it a try.

 

Darling did you ever try to slow down ? You want to slow down so that you can enjoy the peaks and valley of the experience, especially when you’re not so focused about reaching your destination.

Slow down. Because when you are with a women  she will appreciate your ability to go slow.

Its something that you need to cultivate there’s no special price for coming fast. As matter of fact its better if you’re able to go slower and mange your excitement level so when you masturbate you can really learn how it feels like in your body and play with that.

 

Baby did you use your hips when you’re you masturbating ?

Not just your hand you can gyrate your hips, frost your hips like add a new element of adding the hips to the equation.

 

Baby did you like to try new position ? You have masturbate the same like sitting, laying or standing , give it a try in different positions , different location. It might feel weird at first because you’re so used to coming a certain way and maybe you’ll be like this. This is not going to happen for me, but if you can stay long enough with the experience you might find new pleasurable ways to enjoy yourself and your body.

 

So there you have it my dear… these are my masturbation techniques for you to help take your masturbation to the next level because if you do that, your masturbation will never feel boring, or dull and if you don’t have a partner just make sure that you become your most amazing lover !

And train yourself and your body so that when you are with a partner you can take all the skills that you’ve learned by yourself in the bedroom with that special someone.

 

Alright I hope darling to hear from you soon. Thank you so much for reading.  

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